In Their Own Words

Finding My Village: Reflections from PCF Scholar Malika
By Malika, UC Merced ‘25
Political Science major, Anthropology minor

When Malika Reed started college at UC Merced in 2022, she carried both excitement and uncertainty. As a first-generation student, she wanted to thrive—but wasn’t always sure how to make that happen.

“I often asked myself, ‘Can I do this? Is it really achievable?’ Those questions stayed in the back of my mind as I faced new opportunities and challenges.”

Like many college students navigating new environments, Malika faced difficult moments early on.

“After a rough start my freshman year, the confidence I had built in high school began to fade. I even started calling myself a bad luck charm or a jinx because it felt like I had to overcome so many tribulations, while others seemed to breeze through college without problems. But that’s where PCF came in. This program gave me the support I didn’t even realize I needed and helped me rebuild my confidence, reminding me that yes—I can do it.”

Through The Peninsula College Fund’s community of support and mentorship, Malika discovered new meaning in persistence and belonging.

“By my sophomore year, I attended PCF’s annual conference, where a presenter spoke about what it means to be a ‘trailblazer.’ At first, I didn’t think that word applied to me. But I came to learn that trailblazers are people who persist through challenges, bring new perspectives, and open paths for others. Slowly, I began to see myself in that definition—with the help of PCF.”

Malika also found deep inspiration and friendship in her mentor, Sunny, whose name perfectly reflects her warmth and positivity.

“She truly lives up to her name—every time I talk to her or see her, she brightens my day. Sunny has always been there for me, no matter how many times I call or text her about what’s going on in my life. Even when she’s busy, she takes the time to listen and encourage me. That encouragement—from her and from the PCF community—has changed the course of my college years.”

Now approaching graduation, Malika reflects on the power of having a supportive village and a belief in herself.

“As I near the finish line of my undergraduate journey, I can look back and see how much I’ve grown—not just because of my own determination, but because of the village around me: my mentor, PCF, and my family. With PCF behind me, I know I will never be alone.”

She leaves a message for fellow first-generation students and young trailblazers:

“To my fellow trailblazers: as someone who has had to prove herself wrong time and time again—whether it’s making new friends, finding new opportunities, or simply finding her way—I want to remind you: never limit yourself. You will always have a village behind you, whether you realize it or not. If I can do it, so can anyone who feels like the odds are against them.”

Rewriting the Wheel: Joey’s Journey of Resilience and Success

Meet Joey, a third-year undergraduate student at San Diego State University and a proud Peninsula College Fund (PCF) scholar. For Joey, the path to success is built on four crucial pillars: identity development, emotional support, professional development, and financial security. His story is a powerful testament to how PCF’s support in these areas has helped him defy statistics and rewrite the narrative for foster youth.

“There’s a stigma around foster youth,” Joey begins, “about how they act and what they are able to achieve.” Joey’s early life was marked by instability. Lacking the support systems many children take for granted, he entered the foster care system at age four before being raised in a guardianship from age six.

This experience left a deep impact. “Summer going into my senior year of high school, I really didn’t know who I was,” he recalls. “I lacked understanding of myself, emotional intelligence, and what I stood for. All of this manifested itself into extreme anxiety that I have spent the past three years unraveling.” This fear and uncertainty followed him into his first year of college, where he was terrified to take risks.

This is where PCF stepped in, providing a comprehensive support system that changed everything.

Emotional Support: Joey was paired with his mentor, Dory. “Knowing that Dory is unconditionally there for me has given me an extreme sense of security,” he shares. “Although Dory will say she has not done much, just her being there has pushed me to take risks that I otherwise would have overthought.”

Identity Development: Before PCF, Joey had never connected with other students who shared his background. A PCF event his senior year was a turning point, giving him a sense of community and preparing him to join the Guardian Scholars program for former foster youth at SDSU.

Financial Security: “Growing up, I had a really poor relationship with money,” Joey admits. The scholarship from PCF was transformative. It lifted a significant financial burden, allowing him to focus on what college is for: academics and self-growth.

Empowered by the secure foundation PCF helped him build, Joey began to take risks. He learned to see failure not as an endpoint, but as an opportunity to grow.

He ran for student government his freshman year and lost. Undeterred, he ran again for a more senior position his sophomore year, speaking to over 5,000 students. Though he lost again, he refused to be discouraged.

This newfound resilience and willingness to take chances also led to incredible successes:

  • Winning an executive board position for a club he was heavily involved in.
  • Being appointed to a position in student government.
  • Securing a summer internship at ADP, a Fortune 500 company.
  • Getting accepted to study abroad in Sydney, Australia.
  • Landing an internship at Hoover Krepelka, the largest family law firm in the Bay Area—an opportunity he found directly through a PCF career fair.

Joey’s journey is a powerful reminder of the impact of investing in potential.

“Throughout my college career, I have often heard, ‘Joey, you don’t need to re-write the wheel, just repeat what’s successful.’ And I think… where the hell is the fun in that?” he asks.

“So, to all the full-time and part-time staff, mentors, volunteers, donors, and everyone else that puts any time into keeping this organization running, thank you. Thank you for investing in individuals that traditionalists would often pass up. I hope we can all look around and realize the beauty in rewriting the wheel and ending the stigma around foster youth.”

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